What defines a slapper?

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There are a lot of people on here that hate the reference of Michelle as a slapper. Which got me to thinking...what makes one a slapper?

I personally feel that Michelle is one - for reasons I've stated several times elsewhere. She's jumped into bed with a veritable stranger, in a room of 10 other strangers, in front of the nation. She's thrown herself at Stu at every opportunity she's gotten, even when it was physically clear he didn't want to be around her.

She's just recently gotten her 'baps' out for the helicopters, has admitted she loves sex, had sex with women - though no relationships with any women, and loves porn.

I don't care why she's thrown herself at Stu -whether to stay in the house, to kickstart her 'glamour' modeling career, to get the shag-money, or because she genuinely likes him. Obviously we can all specualte till the cows come home, but Michelle's reasons are her own & we simply don't know. But she's put herself into the 'lab rat box' for examination - so I can only examine her actions.

Also, before anyone goes on about me being judgemental, jealous, or snobbish...I ask you - if she's not a textbook definition of a slapper, what is?
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  • epsomepsom Posts: 4,684
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    'Slapper' is a sexist terms used by young people and immature adults, often to characterize women negatively because of jealousy or just pure malice. People using it would probably feel more a home on the C4 BB Forum.
  • [Deleted User][Deleted User] Posts: 279
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    :rolleyes:

    Yeah, ok - thanks for your input - I'll keep it on board.
  • [Deleted User][Deleted User] Posts: 3,158
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    She must be a textbook slapper, and by saying that I'm not saying she's not a nice person :) Some of my best friends are outrageous slappers!! :):) But the desperate t*ts out at every occasion, blowing Stu under the covers, and all the other reasons you've listed above would seem to confirm her status.

    Interstingly I think perception has a lot to do with it too. I think public consensus might be that Jordan is a classic slapper, but she claims to have only slept with 6 people and yet someone like Colin Farrell would has slept with anything that stands still for 5 seconds is considered a stud? Go figure...

    Perhaps in Jordan's case the public think she is a slapper because she is working class and dresses tarty, oh and the ridiculous comedy boobs that seem to pop out when she's drunk.
  • [Deleted User][Deleted User] Posts: 1,310
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    epsom wrote:
    'Slapper' is a sexist terms used by young people and immature adults, often to characterize women negatively because of jealousy or just pure malice. People using it would probably feel more a home on the C4 BB Forum.
    I have heard older, mature people use this term as well.
    It is a negative term, but if you view someone in a negative light, then you use negative terminology do you not?
    I don't know her history, so can't really pass judgement :sleep:
  • JadedJaded Posts: 948
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    "Slapper" is usually a derogative term used by someone about somebody else who is enjoying themselves more than they are - a form of pious envy.

    I don't think it really applies to Michelle as she doesn't seem to be having any fun at all.
  • [Deleted User][Deleted User] Posts: 51,223
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    A slapper is a promiscuous woman. Haven`t seen any evidence that Michelle is promiscuous. She hasn`t bedded anyone in the BB House apart from Stuart.
  • [Deleted User][Deleted User] Posts: 3,158
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    wonderb0y wrote:
    I don't know her history, so can't really pass judgement :sleep:
    Aah but you know her recent history, and isn't that what we are commenting on.... ie. she IS behaving like a slapper, that means at the moment, it doesn't mean she will always be a slapper......
  • [Deleted User][Deleted User] Posts: 319
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    So what's the definition of a male slapper then? It takes two to tango and I didn't see Stuart leaping out the bed or the hot tub. Personally I don't like the term. Why refer to the girl as a slapper? She obviously fancies the guy and she goes for it - it's not as if she's doing the rounds of every fella in there.

    I don't particularly like the girl, I find her quite vapid, but it's pretty obvious she has some major self-esteem issues and she probably needs the attention to feel good about herself. As for getting her t*ts out, so what? Thousands of women do on beaches and by pools all over the world. She's young, they haven't started to sag yet so she may as well make hay while the sun shines!
  • biomorph04biomorph04 Posts: 4,201
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    wonderb0y wrote:
    It is a negative term, but if you view someone in a negative light, then you use negative terminology do you not?

    the more relevant issue is that sex is still seen in a negative light, even though its 2004.
  • [Deleted User][Deleted User] Posts: 266
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    Only by certain, self-righteous people - the sort of people who probably agree that censorship is fine.
  • afcbfanafcbfan Posts: 7,161
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    nickerscat wrote:
    So what's the definition of a male slapper then? QUOTE]

    Well, the general female view of men who sleep around is that they're studs.
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    afcbfan wrote:
    nickerscat wrote:
    So what's the definition of a male slapper then? QUOTE]

    Well, the general female view of men who sleep around is that they're studs.


    I`d say that was the general view of other men, rather than other females.
  • epsomepsom Posts: 4,684
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    wonderb0y wrote:
    I have heard older, mature people use this term as well.
    It is a negative term, but if you view someone in a negative light, then you use negative terminology do you not?
    I don't know her history, so can't really pass judgement :sleep:
    A negative term used against women only.
  • ludovicaludovica Posts: 25,726
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    afcbfan wrote:
    nickerscat wrote:
    So what's the definition of a male slapper then? QUOTE]

    Well, the general female view of men who sleep around is that they're studs.
    Is it? I don't know any women who think that.more like "Don't go there"
  • [Deleted User][Deleted User] Posts: 94
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    Jazmin wrote:

    She's just recently gotten her 'baps' out for the helicopters, has admitted she loves sex, had sex with women - though no relationships with any women, and loves porn.

    Welcome to 2004, please step away from the 1950's.

    I don't know why people feel the need to label Michelle a slapper, but I believe it says more about the person making the statement than it does about the person they are labelling.
  • [Deleted User][Deleted User] Posts: 3,158
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    But Jason claims to have slept with 250+ people so surely he is an UberSlapper???
  • epsomepsom Posts: 4,684
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    yahoodlums wrote:
    But Jason claims to have slept with 250+ people so surely he is an UberSlapper???
    No he's just a bullshit artist.
  • [Deleted User][Deleted User] Posts: 3,158
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    Anyway I would rather be discussing who is or isn't a slapper in the house than have to sit thru BB4 again..... Give me slappers anyday.
  • Inge JonesInge Jones Posts: 11,943
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    Jazmin wrote:
    what makes one a slapper?

    Slapping someone.

    The slang meaning is as obsolete as calling someone a spastic.
  • [Deleted User][Deleted User] Posts: 51,223
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    epsom wrote:
    No he's just a bullshit artist.


    Ain`t that the truth. :rolleyes:
  • [Deleted User][Deleted User] Posts: 3,158
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    I third that statement :)
  • [Deleted User][Deleted User] Posts: 319
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    geraniums wrote:
    Ain`t that the truth. :rolleyes:

    Too right. I can't imagine anyone wanting to go there with someone elses ;) .
  • [Deleted User][Deleted User] Posts: 1,503
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    A slapper - someone like Michelle. A tart obsessed with sex and someone who feels that only by putting it out can she validate herself and give herself some self worth. The type of person who knows someone less than a week but sleeps with them in a room full of people and knowing that she is being watched by millions on tv. Has little self respect.
  • CaptainSensibleCaptainSensible Posts: 5,485
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    Yep, "slapper" is a negative term for women who are not sexually inhibited by the things that inhibit most people (mores/psychology etc.) I don't think Michelle is a slapper; I just think she is less sexually inhibited than most people. I don't think some of her choices are wise, but it's her life etc.

    The fuss about sex and nudity in the BB house is kinda odd; if anyone wants to look at naked people or watch them having sex, they can just browse the internet.
  • afcbfanafcbfan Posts: 7,161
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    ludovica wrote:
    Is it? I don't know any women who think that.more like "Don't go there"

    They do though, don't they :) Hence the chap sleeping around.

    C'mon, sisters. Let's find a derogatory term for blokes who sleep around :D
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