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Hi guys. Now in Spetember I am hoping to go to University and I am planning on getting involved in the Student Radio Station and would very much like to start an advice show where people call in with problems.
Anyway, I post on DS a lot and today I came up with the brain wave of starting a problem page on here, so as to get some practice in. So I've set up this thread where anyone who's got any problem, big or small, and I'll see if I can post some advice. (If you don't want to broadcast it on here you can PM me.)
Thanks,
Russell
Anyway, I post on DS a lot and today I came up with the brain wave of starting a problem page on here, so as to get some practice in. So I've set up this thread where anyone who's got any problem, big or small, and I'll see if I can post some advice. (If you don't want to broadcast it on here you can PM me.)
Thanks,
Russell
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Sometimes I get abit too eager and I have tried on the first date before but I strike out and sometimes get a slap.
I've waited until date 5 or 6 before and the lady has dumped me thinking complaining I wasn't paying her any attention.
What is the optimum?
Let her seduce you first
I usually find 31st April is a good one
Once a year. That's harsh! Even by my standards.
You're on here so much, I'm surprised you have time for anything else
I'm a nerd. But still, once a year??? Harsh!! Any nerdette's out there?
PamelaL .
Oooops Collette has foxed me. Sly.
No excuses. I got done.
Doh. *hangs head in shame*
Aw babe - I felt so mean seeing your reply that I didn't want to say anything.
If you bought me a chicken dinner I'd be yours any day of the week... (well in a cyber sort of way if you promised not to tell my husband that is!)
You mean you couldn't believe how thick a hamster could be.
I have to admit I did feel rather stupid. Don't worry about it.
*goes to find a hole to hide in*
Noooooo now I feel really mean...
H&O... my kids tell me I'm a nerd...
Indeed.
H&O that was a cruel trick....you poor thing.
I believe the correct expression is.......Pnwed!!
Edit: its nerd-speak!
I don't mean to make you feel mean. It isn't your fault I'm stupid.
I take my medicine like a good boy and know when I'm beaten.
I'm more upset that I can't even get it once a year. I can live with being stupid but not without a bit of nerdette pleasure.
I'm sure you can...
That is the second blunder I've made this week.
RUSS' REPLY:
Well then, I wouldn't say there was a particular magic number as obviously it depends on the person. I sympathise with your predicament because it's damned if you do and damned if you don't.
However, and I don't mean to be rude, but can you not tell when the particular lady is ready for you to go a step further? And maybe if you can't then you're not well suited anyway? Would you say that's fair?
You didn't go to the shop and ask for tartan paint did you :eek:
I can't tell normally 'cos I can't seem to read women very well and never really had confidence around them. So I clam up abit.
But what you say sounds fair and I thank you for taking the time to try and help me.
I think your reply is good
But you have the confidence to try and get off with them on a first date?
No problem. As I say I'm trying to get the practice in. I hope I helped. Anyone else with any problems?
Not confidence, desperation. I just said that aloud didn't I.
This is my thread from hell.
I have this friend who is turning in to a complete alcoholic :eek: what should I do???
thanks for your help Russ